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    发表于 2019-11-26 08:31:46 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
    都说婆媳关系微妙难处,可乐寿镇高马头村这对婆媳,可能会让你改变这种观点。93岁的李淑珍是乐寿镇高马头村人,村里人都觉得她即不幸又幸运。不幸的是经历过白头发人送黑发人的痛,因意外摔倒卧床不起。幸运的是有韩月花一位好儿媳,多年如一日地照顾她,毫无怨言,让她能够安度晚年。


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    百善孝为先,孝顺历来是做人的根本。韩月花将这一根本践行的淋漓尽致。作为儿媳妇,不管要承担家里家外的重担,但是韩月花依然事无巨细地照料卧床的婆婆。每天早上起床,做饭、收拾卫生、给母亲洗漱,这些事做完,韩月花的一天也算是开始了。


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    韩月花:“也不觉得累,也不着着累,见天这一套,见天这么干,就不觉的累了。”


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    韩月花是河城街镇九张村人,21岁时嫁到乐寿镇高码头村,便一直与公婆生活在一起,细数已有50年。


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    韩月花:“这么些年了,都在一块,打媳妇来了也在一块过,没分过家。”

    2009年,韩月花83岁的婆婆患了脑血栓,经过救治,勉强能拄拐行动。8年前,韩月花的丈夫去世了,她悲痛的同时还要照顾年已过八旬的婆婆。5年前,李淑珍又摔了一跤,胯骨骨折,医生诊断后建议保守治疗,就这样一直卧床到现在。


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    韩月花:“这么说十年了,她那一年83岁得的脑血栓,走道就不行了,拄着棍,走了那么四五年,这又摔着了,躺在炕上五年多了,就这么伺候。打得了脑血栓解手都解不了了,经常在便盆解,蹲不下,就在椅子上掏个窟窿,倘块板,放下个盘就那么解,之后我就给她端。这以后又摔着了,躺的炕上,就用便盆接再端,这端了十年多了。十年零七个月了。”

    自从婆婆卧床后,5年多来韩月花衣不解带伺候,从没厌烦过。她把自己的被窝卷搬到婆婆屋里,跟婆婆一个坑头睡,孙子放假回家,祖孙三代就挤一个大通炕。

    韩月花:“那时还有我家老伴呢,我就跟俺家那孙在外家屋里,我弄着那个大的,在外家屋那床上宿,俺家老伴,他爸爸就和她在炕上就伴,等以后我家那当家的死了,我们就上炕上来了,你得有人和她就伴呀。”

    韩月花依然坚持每天抽出时间陪老人聊天解闷,时刻关注老人的想法和身体状态。当老人有些头痛感冒时,她总能第一时间察觉并及时给老人买来药品。天气冷了,她及时为老人加衣添被;天气转热,为了预防老人长褥疮,她每天给老人擦洗身子数次。由于身子不能活动,老人拉尿都在炕上,从去年开始,婆婆又大小便失禁,韩月花每隔一两个小时,就给老人换纸尿垫。担心老人一个姿势躺着劳累,每隔半小时,韩月花就轻轻地给老人翻翻身。在韩月花精心的照顾下,屋内屋外干干净净,屋里没有一丝异味,卧床多年,婆婆从未生过一次褥疮,把婆婆照顾的舒舒服服。为了更好的贴身照顾婆婆,在这五年里,韩月花从未出过一次远门。

    韩月花:“从她躺的炕上,我就出不去门了,有个三几年,白天使便盆接,晚上兜一个纸尿裤,就这么着,白天给她兜一个(纸尿裤)干什么呀,热的时候挺热的,就不给她兜,给她接,立时解了手,觉得她不解了,就到外边打个晃,或者到小铺买个菜去,去了就快点回来,我会骑车子,去了就赶紧回来。离不了身,一年我去城里也去不了一趟两趟的。”

    很多人说婆媳关系是一个家庭的火药桶,而这在韩月花和婆婆身上俨然成了一种悖论,韩月花从嫁给丈夫范炳通起,从来没有和婆婆吵过架,都是和和睦睦。照顾婆婆多年,韩月花从未报怨过,厌烦过。

    韩月花:“没有,烦么呀,俺家这一家子可好了,俺们那媳妇对我也可好了,外人经常这么说,到时你也郎当不了呀,你管老人管的这么好,到时你也享了福了,你家那媳妇待你也郎当不了呀。外人经常这么说,出去,我说爱怎么着怎么着吧,我觉得对老人不郎当。”

    在她的影响下,儿子儿媳就连孙子对老人都非常的尊敬孝顺。儿媳陈三爱一进家门,就直奔婆婆奶的屋里,检查老人是不是拉了尿了,为老人换洗纸尿垫,跟婆婆一起为婆婆奶洗头、剪指甲,只要她在家,就会抢着去干活,帮助婆婆韩月花减轻一点负担。


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    韩月花儿媳妇 陈三爱:“看着我妈这么伺候(奶奶),挺辛苦,我也拾掇一点半点的。”


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    儿子范建康:“个人的老人不伺候,主要就是我母亲伺候,如果我们在不帮着点,她不更累了吗。”

    韩月花:“我家媳妇经常抢着洗,我就胃不行,一冷了就烧心,胃酸有胃炎病,俺家媳妇抢着洗,她说,我往家我就替你洗,要不在家干活去,没法了。要不咱再把你弄病了,咱就别过了。就是俺俩天天这么伺候。孙子上学回来,喝水吃药倒水,给拿药的,俺家一家子全伺候。”

    熟悉韩月花的人都知道,她为人朴实,与人无扰,惦记着家里的每个成员,跟全村人老人孩子都没红过脸。在高码头村提起韩月花,无不称赞,韩月花伺候卧床婆婆的事迹在高码头村赢得了很高的口碑。

    韩月花没有豪言壮语、没有惊天动地的事迹,但是她多年如一日精心照顾体弱多病的婆婆,尽心经营普通却温馨的家,看似平凡的举动却不是每个人都能做到的,她的行为体现着一位普通妇女的高尚品行,是当之无愧的好媳妇、好邻居、好妈妈。

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